Hey! My name is Suz, and I talk about sex on the internet. More specifically I’m a Canadian sex blogger, sex toy reviewer, and a boss bitch.
I started this blog in January 2016 as an outlet to practice my writing and to create a space to talk about sex openly. I lacked a sense of a sex-positive community in my life, so I created Red Hot Suz as a way to connect to the existing one online, and to help spread the word about sex-positivity and safe sex toys. I’m currently pursuing a double major in Communications and Multimedia, and hope to one day work within the sexuality industry as an extension of my blog.
Since starting my blog, I’ve gotten the chance to be interviewed on Sex City Radio, The Silhouette newspaper and for the Silhouette’s online content section. My writing has been featured on Sex and The Steel City and Cara Sutra’s website. In August 2016, I had the opportunity to travel to the United States to attend the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit. My article “My First Time: At a Sex Club” is regularly featured on Oasis Aqualounge’s website and newsletter.
I’m a curvy, kinky, cis-female with sub tenancies. I’m queerish and fall somewhere towards the straight side of the bisexual scale. I primarily date and sleep with cismen, but very much enjoy sleeping (in group settings) and crushing on women as well. I consider myself monogamous but haven’t dated anyone seriously enough to know whether monogamy works for me. I am sex-positive, body-positive & an intersectional feminist. I also happen to be a hardcore Tinderella.
I get asked a lot what “sex-positive” means, or specifically, what it means to me. Here is the definition I copy & paste to my Tinder matches during those circumstances:
“ Sex-positive is the idea and practice that all consensual, healthy sex is holistic! I support comprehensive sex education in schools, and I’m non-judgmental when it comes to kinks, fetishes or fantasies.”
If you happen to want to buy me gifts I have two wishlists! One is a wishlist at Come As You Are for all my sex toy wants and needs. The other is an Amazon wishlist for items that help me run my blog and care for myself.
Over my time blogging, I’ve grown an impressive toy collection, visit my toybox page to find out more about what toys I own, and which ones are in my review queue! However, if you need to know, here’s a cheat sheet to my absolute favourites:
- My favourite dildos include the Vixen Bandit, the Tantus Adam O2 and the nJoy Pure Wand.
- My favourite butt toy consists of the lone nJoy Pure Plug (in Medium).
- My favourite vibrators are the Magic Wand Rechargeable, and the We-Vibe Tango.
My kinks are an integral part of my sex life. I love medium pressure choking, spanking, Daddy Dom / Good Girl name calling, and general rough sex. Of course, these kinks are present on a partner by partner basis; just because I’m into these things does not mean I will be into them with everyone. I’m also a unicorn and all around threesome lover.
If you want to contact me, you can do so via email (redhotsuz [at] gmail [dot] com), Twitter (@redhotsuz) or through my contact form.